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Bestseller-Autor Daniel Schreiber im Interview über den Tod seines Vaters, die Krisen unserer Zeit und die Angst vor der Trauer.
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Daniel Schreiber: Trauer betrifft uns alle
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Autor Schreiber ist skeptisch bei Zukunftsprognosen
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