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Rudi Novotny nahm ein halbes Jahr Elternzeit.

Rudi Novotny nahm ein halbes Jahr Elternzeit.

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Berlin.  „Es gab nie eine bessere Zeit, ein Mann zu sein“, sagt Rudi Novotny. Er entschied sich dafür, sechs Monate in Elternzeit zu gehen.

Dieser Text erscheint im Jahr 2019, und so ist es (immer noch) ungewöhnlich, dass ein Mann, der einen Posten als Führungskraft hat, plötzlich Sätze sagt wie: „Der Papa macht nur schnell Ham-ham. Nicht weinen.“

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Novotny war halbes Jahr in Elternzeit

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Versorgung des Kindes ist weiblich konnotiert

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Novotny: „Es gab nie eine bessere Zeit, ein Mann zu sein“

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