Psychologie

Corona, Krieg, Inflation: Wie wir dennoch positiv bleiben

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Vielen Menschen schlagen die negativen Ereignisse auf die Psyche. Doch Trübsinn ist nur ein subjektives Gefühl. (Symbolbild)

Vielen Menschen schlagen die negativen Ereignisse auf die Psyche. Doch Trübsinn ist nur ein subjektives Gefühl. (Symbolbild)

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Essen.  Pandemie, Krieg, Energiekrise, Inflation – kann man da überhaupt noch positiv denken? Der Psychologe Stefan Kölsch sagt „Ja!“ und gibt Tipps.

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