Ein Paar therapiert Paare: Wie man eine gute Beziehung lebt

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Ein Paar therapiert Paare: Wie man eine gute Beziehung lebt

08.02.2019, 19:38 | Lesedauer: 7 Minuten

Das Therapeutenpaar Sindy und Hans Steinmeier in ihrer Praxis. Hinter ihnen: Ein Schwarz-Weiß-Foto von Sigmund Freud sowie eine Buddha-Statue.

Foto: Fabian Strauch

Dortmund. Sindy und Hans Steinmeier leben und arbeiten zusammen. Bei Ehekrisen hören sie zu und helfen. Aber was machen sie, wenn es bei ihnen mal kracht?

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Therapie und Wartezeiten

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