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Ralph Caspers gibt 99 Tipps für tiefe Gespräche mit Kindern

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Der Moderator und Autor Ralph Caspers.

Der Moderator und Autor Ralph Caspers.

Foto: Johannes Haas

Köln.  Tiefgründige Gespräche lassen sich prima nebenbei führen, findet Moderator und Autor Ralph Caspers. In seinem Buch gibt er dafür 99 Denkanstöße.

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